Category: Being Jewish

Somewhere in the Light: A Father-Daughter Dance for Hanukkah

Somewhere in the Light: A Father-Daughter Dance for Hanukkah

By the year 2050, Minnesota’s cases of Alzheimer’s are expected to grow to 200,000. Those who have it may be us. I would like us to see them, though we mostly ignore them. I would like us to see them differently. Maybe Hanukkah is a good way to start.

Good Jew Hunting, Again

Why Jew Go Hunting II: Lawyers, Guns, and Schmaltz

This Jew makes his return to Heron Lake in search of a duck asking to be blasted out of the sky.

Jewish Wedding Throwdown: Big Apple vs. Mini Apple

Jewish Wedding Throwdown: Big Apple vs. Mini Apple

A New York Jew recollects on his Minneapolis wedding and the lack of salmon.

Sukkah Delicious

Sukkah Delicious

There is something about a circle of close friends that makes you taller, more beautiful and stronger.You can be who you are, and all you have to do is walk in the door and fit like a puzzle piece into a world you own.

New-Life Old-Life New Year

New-Life Old-Life New Year

She stares at me, wondering why I don’t wear a scarf like her mom. Am I married? Of course I imagine this; we haven’t said a word.

Stop Blaming Hebrew School

Stop Blaming Hebrew School

Nina Badzin thinks it’s time Jewish adults stop making jokes about their lack of Jewish education and learn something already.

To Isabel, As You Join Our People

To Isabel, As You Join Our People

“There is something so cosmically reassuring to behold the grasp of a newborn.” A drash by Rabbi Michael Adam Latz of Shir Tikvah Congregation.

Crooked Lines on the Ninth of Av

Crooked Lines on the Ninth of Av

I’m seeing a 1930s movie star, someone snarly like Bette Davis, saying “God has nothing to with it,” in the middle of a party on Park Avenue. How would she have written the book of Lamentations? I see her laughing when I ask.

Week Out of Time: Shavuot

Week Out of Time: Shavuot

“Look at your hands,” John says to me one night, when I am sobbing that “I think we may really be alone down here.”
“Look how cool they are,” he says. “Who else could do that but God?”

Oy Betcha: The Mind Rules the Belly

Oy Betcha: The Mind Rules the Belly

Kashrut is one of those lovely complicated things I adore about Judaism, but at the same time, I’m not sure how it fits into my life now.

Yom Ha’atzmaut: an Independence to Celebrate

Yom Ha’atzmaut: an Independence to Celebrate

He is holding his mother’s hand as they get out of the car, but his head swivels to catch sight of the protesters in front of him. As he approaches the door, they scream “Zionist pigs!” with little thought as to how this might be affecting him.

Matzah for 5771

In Joshua’s Shoes: This Year in Jerusalem

Every year we end our Seder with the words, “Next year in Jerusalem”. This year I was in Jerusalem and it was a great way to experience Passover.

Not My Uncle’s Seder

Not My Uncle’s Seder

Watching Josh that evening, I finally understood the saying about all of us escaping from Egypt every time the story is told. Because very likely we are all trying to escape.

It’s “Party in the USA” – Passover Style

It’s “Party in the USA” – Passover Style

REMIX! “I put my yarmulke on, they’re playing my song, and the butterflies fly away….”

The Bitter Pill: Or Conversations with Hashem About Terror in Israel

The Bitter Pill: Or Conversations with Hashem About Terror in Israel

AISH Rabbi Da-vid ponders how God wants us to respond to terror in Israel.