http://tcjewfolk.com/shuli-flakey-friend-foe/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=shuli-flakey-friend-foe Twin Cities Jewfolk: the hub for hip Jewish stuff in Minneapolis and St. Paul Tue, 22 May 2012 03:06:19 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.2 http://tcjewfolk.com/shuli-flakey-friend-foe/comment-page-1/#comment-2014 sad fact Mon, 01 Feb 2010 07:42:30 +0000 http://tcjewfolk.com/?p=1445#comment-2014 I would say that, to borrow from the title of the popular book, "(S)he's just not that into you." Think about it - when you really want to spend time with someone, you find the time, right? You should realize that, if someone "flakes out" on you twice in a row, they really aren't into spending time with you right then. You don't need to confront her about it. Just don't contact her. Sounds like she knows where to find you, so, if things change in the future, she can. There's nothing like having someone you vaguely like (don't want to hurt feelings of) being a noodge about getting together to make you stop even vaguely liking them. Believe me, the shoe will eventually be on the other foot for you (probably with someone else), and you will see how your schedule suddenly closes at the prospect of spending time with someone who doesn't interest you all that much. Sad, but live & learn. I would say that, to borrow from the title of the popular book, “(S)he’s just not that into you.” Think about it – when you really want to spend time with someone, you find the time, right? You should realize that, if someone “flakes out” on you twice in a row, they really aren’t into spending time with you right then. You don’t need to confront her about it. Just don’t contact her. Sounds like she knows where to find you, so, if things change in the future, she can. There’s nothing like having someone you vaguely like (don’t want to hurt feelings of) being a noodge about getting together to make you stop even vaguely liking them. Believe me, the shoe will eventually be on the other foot for you (probably with someone else), and you will see how your schedule suddenly closes at the prospect of spending time with someone who doesn’t interest you all that much. Sad, but live & learn.

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