Comments on: Ask Shuli: Office Bully http://tcjewfolk.com/shuli-office-bully/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=shuli-office-bully Twin Cities Jewfolk: the hub for hip Jewish stuff in Minneapolis and St. Paul Tue, 22 May 2012 03:06:19 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.2 By: Susie http://tcjewfolk.com/shuli-office-bully/comment-page-1/#comment-5758 Susie Tue, 08 Jun 2010 20:00:00 +0000 http://tcjewfolk.com/?p=5036#comment-5758 I think the first thing is acknowledging why what she said made you upset. Was it because you don't want people thinking you were up to something you weren't, you are afraid on how this is going to reflect on you, do you have other issues going on with her personally or work related that have underlying resenments harboring.... Once you realize what it is that is bugging you, you know how to cope. Either way I would say in a nice private way to the person that said something, that the manner in which she did what she did was uncalled for embarrasing. I would start by saying I am sure you didn't realize it and I just wanted to point it out so it doesn't by mistake happen in the future. Remember the day when I came out of a meeting with...... I think the first thing is acknowledging why what she said made you upset. Was it because you don’t want people thinking you were up to something you weren’t, you are afraid on how this is going to reflect on you, do you have other issues going on with her personally or work related that have underlying resenments harboring….

Once you realize what it is that is bugging you, you know how to cope.

Either way I would say in a nice private way to the person that said something, that the manner in which she did what she did was uncalled for embarrasing. I would start by saying I am sure you didn’t realize it and I just wanted to point it out so it doesn’t by mistake happen in the future. Remember the day when I came out of a meeting with……

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