Let's Kibbitz: on Snubs at Summer Weddings

[Ask Shuli has gone on a little vacation, so we’re asking you, our TC Jewfolk readers, to answer this question amongst yourselves. Nu, two Jews, three opinions, right? Let’s have it.]
Riddle me this. I became quite close friends with a woman two years ago and upon learning that her wedding would be this summer, was thrilled. I mean, if I was having my wedding this summer, she’d be in it for sure. When she started talking about bridesmaid dresses we had an awkward moment. I considered her that close, but it wasn’t mutual. I wouldn’t be “in” her wedding. I was crushed. Her wedding is three months away and I’m excited, but still bummed. Should I get over it? Help!